Thursday, December 2, 2010

Jesus is My Happy Meal

"No, Daddy, we want to go to McDonald's!"

"We want the TOY!"



I've just finished listening to Seth Godin's Purple Cow, and now I'm listening to his other audio book Free Prize Inside. Godin very clearly sets forth the need to be remarkable in today's market, and he likens the WOW! factor of extraordinary products and services to the 'free prize' inside a box of Cracker Jacks.

It's an understatement, but when I received the Lord Jesus Christ as my Saviour, I got more than I was expecting.

I just wanted to go to heaven when I died. I just asked for forgiveness of sins.

I wasn't expecting the free prize inside!

"He that hath the Son hath life" (I John 5:12). I got eternal life, but I also got ABUNDANT life! And righteousness. And healing. And hope. And peace. And wisdom. And so many other things that are all wrapped up in Christ. To have Jesus is to have these things; he is those things to those who believe!

A friend of mine said to me, after accepting Christ into his heart, "If you would have told me that He takes away the guilt, I would have gotten saved sooner." Another friend told me that she had never experienced hope before she met Christ. For her, hope was the prize inside; hope made salvation remarkable.

So, 'taste and see that the Lord is good,' and enjoy the gifts that are 'in Him.'


Because Jesus is both the Happy Meal and the Free Prize inside!









Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Kingdom of God is Purple

I've recently finished listening to Seth Godin's Purple Cow. Godin postulates that in today's market, the standard 'p's of promotion, product, publicity, etc., require an additional 'p' which he aptly calls purple. A purple cow standing in the midst of a field of ordinary cows would be attention-getting, and not-at-all ordinary. Godin thus uses the word purple as synonymous with the word remarkable.

Purple products are advertised through word of mouth. They don't require mass media blitzes. They don't need TV ads or magazine spreads. Consumers are obsessed with products that are purple, and their purple-ness spreads from neighbor to neighbor over backyard fences and around family barbecues.

The Kingdom of God is purple.

Well, that's not entirely correct. The Kingdom of God in its purest form is purple, but unfortunately, it is all too often presented as a stale, boring, and dry version of itself. Clothed in the suit and tie of religion, Christianity is seen as a list of rules and requirements, and not as the very LIFE of God flowing joyfully from the hearts of the redeemed.

"[T]he kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and JOY in the Holy Ghost." (Romans 14:17)

As Tony Campolo once wrote, "The Kingdom of God is a Party!" It's a celebration! It's contagious! It's heart-warming, life-giving, and you want to tell everyone you know! It bubbles forth like a fountain of living water. It can't be stopped! It's unique and irresistible!

In its original form, the Kingdom of God 'went viral' immediately after the Resurrection of Christ, and it hasn't stopped since!

Even its critics can't stop talking about it!

True Christianity doesn't require its members to tell others about Jesus, and there are no demerits if you keep it to yourself. But why would you want to?

The Kingdom of God is remarkable ~ it's purple!





Have you discovered this wonderful, oh-so-purple life?

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Heads or Tails?


Twice in Deuteronomy 28, we are told that we are the "head and not the tail."

This is a promise made by God to those of his people who have fulfilled the requirements of the Law. According to Matthew 5:17, the Lord Jesus fulfilled those requirements on our behalf. Ephesians 2 tells us that at one time, we Gentiles were "strangers from the covenants of promise" but now, in Christ, we are made "nigh." Because we are in Abraham's Seed, we are now partakers of the promises made to Abraham and to his children.

These promises of being the 'head" are for those of us who are in Christ.

Which begs the question, What does it mean to be the head? The head is the decision maker. The head is the leader. The head is above. The head is NOT the behind. It is not below. It is not a follower.

What?!?!

You heard me: The head leads, it doesn't follow. I believe that religion blinds our minds, binds our hands, and turns us into slaves, but true Christianity frees us. Religion turns us into followers. Christianity turns us into leaders.

We are kings after all.

I'm not saying that we should be rebellious. I'm not saying that we shouldn't follow orders. What I am saying is, STOP SITTING THERE LIKE A BUMP ON A LOG! You've been made free. You've been give the power to make choices, set courses, and lead men.

It's nice that you are a mild-mannered employee who never rocks the boat. It's wonderful that you follow every order to the 't.' But, you have been created to be MORE than that.

The choice is yours. Which will it be: Heads or tails?



What's your choice? Let me know!

Friday, November 12, 2010

Sliced Carrots

My boss let me go home early on Tuesday! It was a lovely, sunshine-y day and the phone wasn't ringing.

"Get outta here," he said, "You've been working really hard around here, and you should go spend some time with your family."

What a great guy!

"But," he added, "I expect you to work a couple of hours this Saturday. Got it?"

What a jerk!

I'm still reading The Carrot Principle.
In the book, the authors talk about recognition as a means to increase employee satisfaction and retention, and profits.

However, there is a slight caveat that they mention. Most managers are 'Expecters' - that is, they give rewards with strings attached. They may give you a nice little reward, on Tuesday, but they also expect you to work late on Friday (or come in on Saturday morning). It's manipulation, not recognition.

And, it smacks of legalism and a wrong view of grace. It's giving with ulterior motives.

The other type of manager is the 'Altruistic' manager. They genuinely care about their employees, not just the bottom line. They get to know their employees, and want them to do well in their private lives and in their business lives. When these managers give rewards for attaining goals, they give without strings attached. The recognition is purposeful and given freely.

This kind of recognition is more like biblical grace. It is a gift freely given, and nothing else is required. It has a personal touch. It builds relationship and trust. It builds morale.

It should come as no surprise that when recognition of achievement is given altruistically, employee satisfaction goes through the roof (and profits go up, too), but when the same recognition comes piggy-backed on fear and manipulation, the employees see through it.

Take note! Grace changes the employee from the inside out, and produces a better company.


P.S. My brother mentioned a good example of this. The Altruistic manager says, "Thank you for doing such a wonderful job." The Expector says, "Thank you for doing such a wonderful job...keep it up!"

Whatcha think about that?

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Rendering Honour & Employee Recognition

I've been listening to The Carrot Principle by Gostick and Elton. What a powerful book about employee recognition and its effect on business.

In their book, they mention studies that include over 200,000 people in dozens of countries, one-on-one interviews, and focus groups. And with all this research, they have discovered what the Bible says: Render honor to the person who deserves it! (Rom. 13:7)

Did you know that if a manager is good at the basic managerial techniques - goal setting, communication, accountability, trust building - he is still missing his most important tool if he doesn't know how to show appreciation to his workers?

Managers believe that employees want good pay and job security first and foremost, but the studies have shown time and again that employees really want to be appreciated and kept informed. Without purposeful recognition, employees leave their jobs in search of new ones where they will be appreciated; this employee turnover costs American business over $5 TRILLION every year!

Almost 70% of employees say that they were not shown any measurable appreciation last year!

However, in companies that emphasize recognition, both employee and customer satisfaction increases, productivity increases, and profit increases .

"Render therefore to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour to whom honour."

It's a simple thing but it goes a long way toward affecting your bottom line.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Wise Advice

When you open a new restaurant, don't invite the politicians, invite the cab drivers.

Principles of Small Business

For the past 4 years or so, I have worked for a couple of different small roofing businesses. Along the way, I have learned a few things that I think are worth passing along.

1. Never pay full price for advertising. Advertisers make a ton of profit off of every company that advertises with them; they can afford to cut the costs and 'show some love' in order to get your business. So, make nice, sweet talk, and never, ever pay full price.

2. You have not because you ask not. If you want the sale, ask for it. If you want the customer to give you a referral, ask for it. And, if you want those supplies at a lower cost, ask for it. My boss has been invited over for dinner and lunch by his customers simply because he is likable, and he asks!

Another good example: We had an magazine advertiser who was selling a particular spot for about $1500. The boss asked for a discount and got it down to $1300. We then asked for a further discount and got it down to about $1000. That's a good discount! Well, my boss said, just for fun, ask him to lower it another $300. We did it more or less for kicks, and just to see what he would say. (This was all taking place by email) We thought he'd get mad, but instead he emailed back that he had discussed it with his supervisor, and he would give us the ad at $700! The point: We asked.

3. Most people are generally lazy, so ask two or three times. Why? Because, they will try to take the lazy way out rather than checking, making the phone call, reading the directions, etc.

Here's an example: I called over to Lowe's, and asked to talk to someone about roofing shingles. I asked the guy on the other end a question,

"Do you carry such and such shingle?"
"Um, no. No, I don't think so."
"Are you positive that you don't have it?"
"Um, yeah." (I still didn't believe him.)
"Would you mind walking down the aisle and taking a look for me?"

Sure, there was a risk that I would tick him off, but when he came back, he had to admit that the item was in stock.

The same conversation works with bank tellers, delivery men, and employees!

4. Test and measure everything! At the small roofing and siding company that I work for, we keep track of everything: advertising costs, leads per promotion, jobs per promotion, conversion rates, trends, etc.

I know that last month my salesman was given X number of leads, and that he converted that number to Y number of jobs, and that this brought in Z amount of revenue.

I know that those leads came from two flyers, a postcard, Angie's List, and passing out a business card at a restaurant. I know exactly how much those ads cost the company to generate, and what the profit was per job. (I love bean counting!)

Why is this important? Well, for example, we almost dropped our radio advertising. We had spent about $8000 in advertising with a particular radio station, but we weren't getting very many leads for our money; the boss wanted to drop them. But, I figured out that we had brought in about $40,000 in revenue over the past year from the radio station leads. With our profit margin set at 20%, after paying for labor and materials, we had made $8000 for the year year . . . from a radio spot that cost us $8000 for the year. We weren't making a profit, but we weren't losing any either.

Where we had originally planned on dumping the radio spot altogether, but after seeing the numbers, we decided to keep the spot, and the branding exposure that came with it.

5. Hire a Mentor and do what they say! The first small business that I worked for hired a business mentor (for $50,000!), but didn't implement any of the action steps that were suggested. The mentor in question had built and sold something like four or five businesses himself!

The second small business, where I currently work, is at least trying to follow through with our coach's recommendations. We've written out vision statements, mission statements, 90-day plans, 3 month goals, etc.

The difference is that one business is doing well, and one was avoiding calls from collection agencies. The Scriptures say, "Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety" and "For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellors there is safety." (Prov. 11:14, 24:6)

6. Get more training! It's the same reason that you hire a mentor: you don't know everything. So, when you think you know something, take another course on it. When you're an expert salesman, go to a seminar on 'closing the sale,' when you're an expert at roofing take a 'Top of the House' training class from Owens Corning. Never stop learning.

7. Frame it and hang it. Let others know about all this training that you've been getting.

I used to find it distasteful when I'd walk into someone's office and see a bunch of plaques on the wall. How egotistical, I thought. How self-promoting. Now, with my new boss, I've seen that he doesn't have to brag - the plaques do the talking for him. They are hanging in the foyer, and they say that he is a professional, he is well-trained, and he is knowledgeable.

The plaques are there to make sure nobody misunderstands his goofy side.

There are other lessons: Give the hourly employee opportunities to make more money (rewards and incentives), Give to charities and poor people, Spend more time on the hiring process so you don't have to fire them later on, Invest back into the business, and, Say, 'No' when you don't want the job, even if it will make you money.



What lessons have you learned from your job?

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Labor Not to be Rich


Proverbs 23:4 gives some excellent advice for acquiring wealth. It says, "Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom."

We've seen that wealth is the fruit of a wise life, but we are to seek the root, not the fruit. Now, we see that laboring to get rich is the WRONG way to get rich. It seems like the right thing to do, but , as Solomon says, cease from thine own wisdom.

A study was done on a group of business owners. Some were in business because they loved what they were doing, some because they were very good at what they were doing, and some were in business for altruistic reasons - they enjoyed helping others through their business. Of these small business owners, 80% were still in business (and doing well) five years later.

Another group of business owners were in the business just to make a profit. They were laboring to be rich. They were more easily disenchanted. They made wrong business decisions, such as not investing in the 'ambiance' that customers enjoy because they viewed it as an unnecessary investment. The result? Only 20% were in business five years later.

What does this mean to us? God wants us to prosper. He also knows that life usually operates upside-down to how we think it operates, so he gives us instructions to help us out.

Listen to him. Enjoy your business. Be passionate, and others will be drawn to you.


What do you think?

Monday, October 25, 2010

The Universe is For Me

In Psalm 56:9, we find the declaration, "for God is for me." And Romans 8:31 ask, " If God be for us, who can be against us?"

God is on my side. The Creator is on my side. The One who yields all the power of the universe is on my side.

Think about that!


If the Creator is on my side, how could his creation be against me? If the Creator favors me, then certainly circumstances favor me! The universe blesses me because it is the tool of the Creator who blesses me.

"He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?" (Romans 8:32) "For all the promises of God in him are yea, and in him Amen, unto the glory of God by us." (2 Cor. 1:20)

All created things work together for my good, because the Creator of all things is FOR me!

Friday, October 22, 2010

God Will Do Anything for His Glory



God answers the prayer that accomplishes his will, that pleases him. For this reason, it seems easier to believe God for things when I'm teaching a Sunday school class, or being otherwise preoccupied with my Father's business. It also seems easier to have faith that God will provide things like the financial support for a short term missionary trip.

But God is not selfish. God gave his own Son to die on the Cross for us. That is, he put our wishes above his own. And that led me to this thought:

God is even MORE APT to do that which blesses us than he is to do those things that please himself.

Romans 8:32, "He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?"

Wow. How does that affect your view of an abundant life?

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Your Grace is Enough



I just heard a song on the radio:

Your grace is enough. Your grace is enough. Your grace is enough for me.




As I listened, I found myself disagreeing. I don't think that grace is enough, if by 'enough' you mean 'all there is.' There is a sense in which I used to view grace as an end unto itself, a finish line - once you're saved, you're done. Period. How many Christians are chained to their chairs by the lackadaisical, energy-sucking belief that they have received grace, but that they are not free to follow their hearts' desires?

Grace is not supposed to be the end, it is supposed to be the beginning. Grace unshackles us so that we can run, reach and strive for an abundant life. It is the gunshot that signals the start of the race. It is the door flying open before the thoroughbred. It is freedom, and it is rocket fuel.

I first came across the concept of empowerment when I worked for Sears in the '80's. My manager told me that I was allowed to make decisions that affected customers, and that there were no wrong decisions; that is, I would not be reprimanded in any way as long as I did what I thought was best. To be sure, I didn't believe him at first. There was no way that he was giving that kind of freedom and power to the lowest man on the totem pole. But he was! And, it gave me confidence and strength to know that he was! It made me a better employee.

Empowerment. That's grace. The freedom from failure. The freedom to achieve. Grace is enough. But, it is not meant to be the end. It is not meant to lock you into a pew or a ministry. It is meant to free YOU, not make you a clone. So reach, strive, and reign in life.

Attempt. Succeed. Rejoice!




I welcome your thoughts and comments. :)






Saturday, October 9, 2010

No Future, No Hope

I remember watching a show where some folks were hypnotized into believing that they either had no past or no future. Those with no past were able to function normally; they just didn't remember anything before the day of being hypnotized. However, those who had their future removed from them, immediately sank into depression. Their hope was gone, and so was their drive to accomplish anything.

In the Bible, Paul told us that 'evil communications corrupt good manners.' He was specifically referring to the heresy which states that there is no resurrection from the dead, and he logically explained how such a belief would lead to a corruption of right living.

Evil communications do corrupt good manners. In my opinion, the belief that the Lord Jesus could come back at any moment robs the believer of his future. I know, I've been there. I've sat in the pew and heard the sermons and songs tell me over and over that I have no certain future on this earth. I know young men who didn't go to college because, well, why bother? I myself have felt that way ~ Hopeless.

I personally don't hold to the very prevalent heresy which is known today as the imminent (i.e., could happen at any time) pre-tribulation rapture of the church. I used to, but then I spent over six months of intense research into both sides of this issue, and I came to the conclusion that it is not a biblical doctrine. Over the past five years, I have only become more convinced.

In order to be successful, you have to believe that you can set a goal, and that you have time to reach that goal.

What do you believe about your future?

Friday, October 8, 2010

Seen or Unseen


Is the real you your body? your soul? your spirit? When this body dies do you die? Or, do you go on living somewhere?

Are you visible or invisible? The real you is invisible. It is unseen. It is eternal. Does the invisible live primarily in the visible world, or the invisible world? Why would you assume that if you are invisible and eternal that your life is primarily lived in the seen world?

Your brain does not connect you with the unseen world; it connects you with the seen world. Your body is a vessel that transports the interface by which you (the invisible) connect with this world (the visible). Your brain is a lens through which the invisible you is able to see, feel, hear, smell and touch this world.

Your words ~ Are they visible or invisible? Invisible. Certainly the sound, the movement of air is visible, but your words are also powerful. They are unseen. They are creative. They begin in the invisible world and are completed in the visible world. They cross the bridge between thought and manifestation.

Is the Law of Attraction simply the invisible part of you operating in the invisible world to affect the visible world?

What do you think?

Monday, October 4, 2010

Seek the Root, Not the Fruit

If you want to have a bountiful harvest of apples, improve the health of your apple tree. Create the condition for a bountiful crop, and you'll get a bountiful crop. It's not about what you do to the branches, it's what you do to the root. It's not about polishing the apples, it's about feeding the foundation. One is superficial, the other is vital.

According to the book of Proverbs, wisdom is the principle thing. Wisdom and understanding are the root of a good life. Financial success is simply the fruit of wisdom and understanding. If you spend all your time pursuing the fruit, and ignore the root, then your crop will never increase.

Wisdom is seeing the REALITY of life. It is not found in what you think is going on, or what you hope is going on, it is reality from God's point of view; it is what is actually happening in your life. When you see things as they really are, you can take responsibility for them, and fix them. This is why the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.

And, why it is so necessary to a bumper crop of fruit.



Are you working on the root or the fruit in your life? Let me know!

Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?


It's so simple that a child can do it.

If you'd like to know the root cause behind something, ask yourself why five times.

The car broke down.
Why?
The alternator died.
Why?
The belt broke.
Why?
It wore out.
Why?
I didn't replace it in time.
Why?
I didn't keep a log book.

Ta da! You now have an action step to prevent this from happening again! Note that your action step came after you took responsibility: "I didn't replace it in time" and "I didn't keep a log book."

Behind every problem is a root cause, and behind every root cause is something that you can do once you take responsibility.

So, ask yourself, 'Why?'



Sunday, October 3, 2010

Financial Gnosticism


The small epistle of 1st John was written to combat the heretical beliefs of Gnosticism that were creeping into the church. The primary belief of the Gnostics was that anything spirit was good, and anything physical was bad. For this reason, they chose to spiritualize the incarnation of Christ. God could not have come in the flesh since all flesh was bad, they reasoned.

Of course, this was all wrong. Jesus Christ is God come in the flesh, and by coming as he did, he showed that our physical bodies are acceptable to God. Didn't God himself say of his creation that it was 'good'? (see Genesis 1)

Now, let's take a look at financial success, prosperity and riches. There is a commonly held belief among Christians that we could call Financial Gnosticism. These financial Gnostics believe that poverty is always good, and wealth is always bad. Well, actually, they believe that wealth is okay. After all, Solomon, David, and Abraham were all extremely wealthy, not to mention Job, Joseph, etc. It's the pursuit of wealth that is wrong.

But is that biblical?

God tells us that we shouldn't labor to be rich. And if that is our only goal, then we're just being greedy. But what about laboring so that we can be financially free? so that we can leave an inheritance to our children's children? so that we can owe no man anything but to love one another? so that our joy can be full? so we don't have to worry about creditors any more?

No, financial success is not against God; if done correctly, it actually reveals the Father's heart in us. Our Father is very wealthy, isn't he?

And who can fault me for wanting to be like my Dad?


The Law of Attraction: Is the Universe Trying to Replace God?

I have a red flag inside me that starts waving whenever someone says that the universe brought them something. I want to tell them that it was actually their loving and generous heavenly Father, not the universe. I don't want some impersonal universe trying to replace a personal God. It bothers me.

But, are the two mutually exclusive?

The Lord Jesus taught us in Mark 11, "That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith."

That is a command: 'Be thou cast into the sea!' It is not a prayer. There is no petitioning of your heavenly Father, no intercession, no fasting; just a simple command in faith. It seems to leave God out of the equation, but it doesn't.

So, how does the mountain get moved in the sea? Could it be that God has created the universe to operate according to principles and laws? Could it be that we are to ask for certain things, but we are not supposed to ask for other things? Could it be that some things are in our realm of control?

Again, the farmer may pray that the Lord blesses the work of his hands, but many farmers simply plant corn and reap the benefits because they are operating according to the laws of growth and harvest.

Perhaps Napoleon Hill, et al. , was not seeking to replace God the Father, perhaps he was trying to explain natural laws that were put in place by God the Giver?

The Universe Will Give It to You

One of the most New Age-y concepts of success is the Law of Attraction. First promoted by Napoleon Hill, and made famous by the movie The Secret, the Law of Attraction seems to imply that if I think about something long enough, it will come to me.

Well, that's partly true. Consider the following scenarios:

If you install solar panels on your new home, will the universe bring you electricity? If you install a water wheel on the river behind your house, will the universe bring you power? If you sit under an apple tree long enough, will the universe bring you an apple? f you're a pretty girl, and you go to a dance, will somebody eventually ask you to dance?

The universe, God's creation, is as giving as its Creator is. Gravity brings things to us. The four winds bring things to us. If we set a trap and wait, we can catch the food and clothing that creation brings our way.

So, perhaps that Law of Attraction is not as New Age-y as it appears at first glance. The major proponents of this Law, all say that you can't just sit back, you have to work along with creation or it won't happen. Isn't that what a farmer does? He has a vision of a field of corn, and he sets out to make it happen? Eventually, the laws of creation fill up the empty earth with acres of corn.

I just keep thinking that the millionaires and billionaires who teach the Law of Attraction (Robbins, Assaraf, etc.), can't all be wrong. Perhaps their understanding is flawed because of the New Age-y verbiage that is associated with this idea? If somebody taught that departed tree spirits brought apples down from apple trees, would that make gravity any less real?

Or could the vocabulary simply be wrong?


Friday, October 1, 2010

If You Help Enough People Get What They Want

Zig Ziglar is famous for saying, "Anybody can have what they want, if they just help enough other people get what they want."

With this in mind, I started thinking about some large and/or quickly growing internet-friendly companies.

Groupon is a newer company that is based on the fact that Customers want discounts and Vendors want quality leads.

Angie's List is based on Customers wanting to know something about a contractor before they hire them, and on Contractors wanting quality leads.

Facebook is based on Customers wanting to stay connected with friends and family, and on Vendors who wanting to advertise in a good location.

Google is based on Customers wanting to make use of the internet's vast resources, and on Vendors wanting to advertise where a lot of people are.

Squidoo is based on Customers wanting to express themselves through writing, and getting paid for it, and on Vendors looking for a great place to advertise.

(Wikipedia really needs to start accepting ads LOL)

Youtube provides a place for Customers to express themselves through video, and now they've contracted with Kodak who wanted to make it easier for their customers to upload video taken on Kodak cameras.

Self expression, discounts, knowledge, ease of use, etc., these are all things that customers want. I think that with a little thought, it shouldn't be too hard to perhaps create relationships/links that haven't been done before.

Project: Take 100 pieces of paper and write on them the needs that Customers have. Take another 100 pieces of paper and write on them the needs that Vendors have. Now pick one from each stack at random, and ask yourself if you know of a company that is meeting that 'couplet' of needs. When you find a unique, out-of-the-ordinary 'couplet,' ask yourself what would it take to make it work?

That's my thought. What's yours??


p.s. Our company recently worked through "99designs.com" to hire a web page designer. Another excellent example of a website that connects people with a certain skill with those who need their talents.


Wednesday, September 29, 2010

I Give You Permission to Succeed

Now go and do something with it.

Coveting is not the same as Desiring

That wonderful carrot hangs out there on a stick by a string, just taunting you. You want it. Bad. But the stick and the string hold it just out of reach. How do you overcome these obstacles?


One of the obstacles that I see in the lives of Christians is the word covetous. We don't want to be covetous. Coveting is wrong. It transgresses the tenth of the Ten Commandments. We wouldn't do that. We won't do that.

But perhaps we have a wrong understanding of what it means to covet?

Let's look at the Bible verse:

"Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's." (Exodus 20)


I believe the key word here is neighbor. It's okay to desire a wife, just not your neighbor's wife. It's okay to desire an ox to help with the plowing, but it's not okay to want your neighbor's ox.

Do you see the difference? It's okay to desire a position within the company, just not your co-worker's position!

People with a poverty mindset believe that there is not enough ________ (fill in the blank) for everyone. In their minds, if you own a million dollar house, you are somehow robbing the local food bank. They think that there is only 'so much' money in the world. But this is a lie.

This same mindset says that there is only one ox in the world that can do what I need - my neighbor's! And, I will have it! There is only one car in the world that nice - my neighbor's! And, I will have it! There is only one lifestyle that wonderful - my neighbor's! And, I will have it!

But God is a God of plenty, and there is more than enough for all. He has created us to desire, to strive, to long for something better; these are traits that HE has given us! Desire looks at the wealth of God's creation, the supreme possibility that comes from a loving Creator, and wants more.

And that's okay.






Expansion

Expansion and enlargement are the natural byproducts of growth. And this applies to your choices as well. I mentioned before, there are two types of choices: those with power, and those without. Choices that are powerful are loaded with intention and commitment. Those that are powerless only appear to be choices, but they are not.

For example, you chose what clothes to put on this morning. Or did you? Was there really a choice involved? If your choice was merely 'choosing' the outfit that was clean, or the one that was closest to the front of the closet, or the one that you've worn a thousand times before when the weather was just as cool (or hot, or rainy) as it is today, was that really a choice?

If your choice is merely picking which well-worn path to walk, is that really using your power of choice? Didn't you make the choice about which outfit to wear when you purchased it at the store, when you added it to your closet in the first place?

And, then again, didn't you make that choice years before then when you made the choice to only buy certain outfits, certain sweaters, and certain brands? By limiting yourself to a certain subset within a broader category, you have purposefully stopped expansion. The cowboy who only wears Levi jeans has already chosen against designer jeans, so it doesn't matter what he picks to wear out of his dresser drawer, his choice is limited.

The power of intention is the personal power/confidence/inner strength that comes to us when we choose outside of our normal routine. It is a confidence that arrives as fear but then grows to something larger through acceptance. It is an inner growth that occurs when we allow our subset of choices to be increased.

Does that mean that the cowboy has to wear designer jeans every day? No, of course not. He does however have to be willing to change. If he's not able to change, then he's stuck. And that is not growth.


Assignment: Make a choice that is outside of your normal subset in a certain category. If you're going to a restaurant, then don't go to one of the five that you always go to - go somewhere completely different! If you're driving home from work, don't take the same route that you always take - take the long way! If you're applying for a job, apply for one that is completely outside of your comfort zone - you just might get! Join a new club, take a new class, visit a new friend, etc.

Expand your subset of choices, the subset that you chose decades ago, and watch yourself grow today!


I'd love to hear what you think.

Don't Look at the Wall

What do you do when you feel the tires of your race car start to slip, and you know you're heading toward the wall?

Ignore your instincts. Don't look at the wall. An accident will happen if you look at the wall. Your car wants to go wherever you look, so keep your eyes on the track.

You'll want to look at the wall. You'll want to look really bad. But keep your eyes on where you want to go!

Trust that your tires will catch in time. Trust that the car will straighten up.

Keep your eyes on the goal.

And don't look at the wall.


Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Trapped by the Sovereignty of God?


Have you ever felt trapped by the sovereignty of God?
God is the Potter who has placed you onto his sculpting table. He pounds on you. He pushes at you. He rolls you under his strong hands, preparing you for some unknown work that he has for you to do.

You are softened by experiences, broken beyond the ability to harden yourself against him. He places your life on the turn table, and the world spins. Confusion reigns as left becomes right, up becomes down, and you pray for your world to stop spinning out of control.

Then, you are placed into a box. A kiln, actually. There are others in here with you. You are going to go through this together. Perhaps your group is your family, perhaps your group is comprised of co-workers; no matter, the lid is closed. You are trapped. God's hand has locked you in.

And the fire is turned up.

You want to escape, but you can't. You can't go forward. You can't go back. You're stuck, and you know it. And it's dark; there's no light at all. "Why?" you cry out. But there is no answer.

You are trapped by the sovereignty of God.

Eventually, the door will open. You will be taken out. You will be usable, perhaps beautiful with sparkling, glazed colors - the Potter's masterpiece.

Observation: While this is true in many circumstances, there are many times where we are trapped in kilns of our own making. We lack the creativity and courage to get ourselves out. Perhaps the lesson we are to learn is not one of endurance, perhaps it is that we need to take ownership of our lives, and get ourselves out.

God is our Father. He wants us to grow up into strong, whole human beings who shine forth the strength of the Lord and the wisdom of Christ. But if we never do anything but sit and wait to be rescued, are we really becoming more Christlike? Dependence is one thing, but helplessness is something else altogether. You were made to be free.

So rock yourself a little bit. Get yourself over against the wall of your kiln. Maybe work with some other pots to form a pyramid, and get yourselves up near the lid. Bang for help. Push, shove, and lift. Exert yourself and pray to God for strength and courage and wisdom.

If you really want it, I think that God will help you. Your lid will open, and you'll come forth shining. Maybe not as a pot, but as a son.


I'd love to hear your thoughts on the subject. Have you ever experienced being trapped?

If You Think You Can't, You Must

The price of admission is - 'If you can't, you must.'

I've recently been watching Tony Robbins' television series, and fell in love with this motto. I did a little research, and found that the rest of the quote is:

'If you must, you can.'

Now, that is something to think about.

Taking Stewardship, I mean, Ownership of Your Life

In order to be a success, we must take ownership of our lives.

And right there, at the word ownership, many of you stumbled. You have been taught from the pulpit every Sunday since you were a child that you are to be a steward, NOT an owner. All of your talents, all of your material goods, all of your past, present and future - it all belongs to God. You are only a steward.

I have been taught the same thing. And, like many of you, I have taken my talent and buried it in the earth. Why? Simply because it isn't mine. It belongs to someone else. And, truth be told, I don't want to be responsible for stuff that belongs to someone else. What's in it for me?

When we take away ownership, we take away responsibility.

The Lord Jesus taught this truth in John 10, "But he that is an hireling, and not the shepherd, whose own the sheep are not, seeth the wolf coming, and leaveth the sheep, and fleeth: and the wolf catcheth them, and scattereth the sheep. The hireling fleeth, because he is an hireling, and careth not for the sheep." Jesus takes responsibility for the sheep because he OWNS them!

The welfare department also knows this truth. When people don't OWN something, they don't take care of it. They ignore it, or they misuse it, or they abuse it. They don't wash it, paint it, weed it or fix it. Why should they? It's not theirs.

When your life is not your own, you don't take ownership of it!

Now, it is true that everything is God's. And it is true that we are stewards of all that God has given us. But we are also OWNERS.

Your life is yours! Own it! Grow it, feed it, wash it, or paint it. Enlarge it. Make it successful.

Think about this: Taking ownership of your life, is the very best way to be a steward of what God has given you.

p.s. My wife was just now telling me that as Europe was coming out of the Dark Ages and entering into the Renaissance, there was a resurgence in personal independence. These great Renaissance men, like Leonardo da Vinci, believed that they were stewards of the lives that God had given them, and that they were also co-creating themselves with God. They were both owners and stewards of their lives!


Leave me a comment, I'd like to hear what your thoughts are.



The Powerlessness of Unintended Choices

We each make a million choices every day. We choose what clothes to wear, what food to eat, what TV shows to watch, and how fast to drive. Every day we each make thousands of choices.

Or do we?

There is a wonderful secret to success known as the 'power of intention.' The New Agers state that when we are fully committed to a goal, the universe will help us to achieve it. But, they tell us, we must be fully committed. We must INTEND to achieve the goal. Wishy-washiness does not inspire the universe to help anyone. :)

Well, there is some truth to that. We are not to be double-minded (James 1), and we are to do things with all of our might (Ecclesiastes 9:10). And, God himself does reward us when we step out in faith to accomplish our goals. Faith means that we put ourselves out there. We step into the overflowing Jordan, knowing that failure means death, but we do it anyway. And the river parts. That is the power of intention. It is something that appears to be built into the spiritual fabric of our universe. It is a principle.

Jesus spoke about intention and commitment in Luke 9:62, "No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God."

Now, about those choices.

Are we really making a choice when we wear the same clothes that we've always worn, eat the same foods we've always eaten, and drive to the same job that we've always driven to? Are those choices or habits? Are they packed with the 'power of intention' or are they just so many ruts in a well-traveled road?

The power of intention lies in the choice to do something different. When you feel your knees knocking a little bit, when you've got something to lose but you do it anyway. When you step out in faith.

Intention without action is just a wish.

So, the question must be asked: When was the last time that you really made a choice?

Let me know about it.

How To Get Rid of the Stick and the String?


Carrots symbolize rewards and achievements. They represent success, but they also represent success that is always just out of reach. They are held there by a stick and a string.

This blog is about removing these obstacles to success.